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You Are Stronger Than You Think!

Posted on September 18th, 2012

Strength in struggle As illustrated, finding your strength and realising your attributes are found through the struggles and pain in life, not when things are easy and you feel you’re at your strongest. It is through the weak moments that you learn and become stronger because of those circumstances. A bag of tea may look exactly the […]

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It’s Never Too Late to Find The One

Posted on September 9th, 2012

Jane Fonda on sex and intimacy The former fitness guru Jane Fonda, 74, recently revealed that she has been having the best sex of her life in the last few years. Jane — who has been married three times — said she and her partner, Richard Perry, who she first met 40 years ago, had discovered […]

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You Cannot Solve a Problem with the Same Thinking that Got You There

Posted on September 5th, 2012

Ever been stuck in a situation or a problem but not know how to get out of it? Life throws us lots of different hurdles and hiccups along the way. People disappoint us; we disappoint ourselves. But our biggest mistake is not that we made the mistake in the first place. Our past can determine who […]

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Trying to Score Against Your Ex vs Focusing on Winning the Overall Game

Posted on August 30th, 2012

Chess is a game of strategy and tactics. It’s a game in which you take out your opponents pieces until you capture them all and then attack their king. This is in no way what break ups or divorce should ever be about; yet sadly enough it is the reality of so many couples today. […]

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Death vs. Divorce – Why do we have so much divorce shame? Is Our Compassion Balanced?

Posted on August 25th, 2012

A question of compassion I stumbled across an interesting question recently when someone asked, “Why don’t people show the same compassion towards divorce as they do to death?” That question is on a very fine line between right or wrong; yet it is nonetheless a question that can present a variety of different views when […]

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Instant Gratification Part 2: What’s Best for Me?

Posted on August 13th, 2012

This article is a follow on from part 1. Read that here What is instant gratification? As human beings we tend to become fascinated by ourselves and our stories. We may allow ourselves to become too self-indulgent and it can be destructive. As long as we recognise the vision of where we want and need to be […]

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Instant Gratification vs. Long Term Strategy: What’s Best?

Posted on July 27th, 2012

Instant versus incremental Instant rewards and instant healing has a much nicer ring to it than the two combined words of long term. However, if waiting for a particular amount of time will help you further along in the long run, it stirs the question of whether waiting is more worthwhile. But how do you determine what works best […]

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No Fault Divorce – What This Means to Us

Posted on July 5th, 2012

What is no-fault divorce? The UK laws of divorce have not been reformed since their introduction in 1969. However, there was a move and introduction to no–fault divorce shortly after 1970. No-fault divorce is a divorce in which the dissolution of a marriage does not require a showing of wrong-doing by either party. Laws providing for no-fault […]

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War of the Roses – the acrimonious divorce

Posted on June 30th, 2012

The War of the Roses was a civil war in England. The thirty years of warfare were even more destructive to England than the Hundred Years War had been in the previous century. With the petty disputes that occur between partners during a divorce these days, it seems necessary to title this article such. One in […]

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“I’M NOT READY YET” The Price for Suffering

Posted on June 22nd, 2012

I’m not ready” A very common phrase we ALL use. A case of: Not being prepared for what one is about to do or experience; Not equipped or supplied with what is needed for some act or event, Not prepared for immediate movement or action. What can be debated is; whether being “Ready” is a […]

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