Many people live in this limbo for months if not years and their health suffers massively. If they divorce too quickly, the vast majority of people will go on to have unsuccessful relationships in the future.  We know this because the divorce rate gets higher with second and third marriages. The reality is: THIS IS ONE OF THE TOUGHEST DECISIONS YOU WILL EVER MAKE. So getting total clarity on this is critical to moving forward either way. If your relationship is save-able: crack on and rebuild it from scratch. If not: Get moving on consciously uncoupling with as little drama as possible.

At Naked Divorce we have extensive experience in assessing whether a marriage is saveable or not. We have a program to support saving the marriage and programs to support couples and children to heal from divorce. Either which way, living in limbo in an unhappy situation impacts you, your kids and your health and life negatively. Also, if you leave an ailing marriage too long, saving it becomes less achievable over time. Getting clarity gets you out of resignation and back into the driving seat of this situation.

How do I know if divorce is for me?

Deciding to divorce is a massive choice to make. Getting married is the biggest commitment you have ever made so choosing to undo that is not something to be taken lightly. We have sessions available to help you get clear on whether divorce is the right decision for you. We believe in people doing everything they can to save their marriage and in evaluating whether divorce is for you or not, you have the option to do the Naked Marriage SPARK program to work with your partner to see if your marriage is salvageable. In many cases, we find that it can be.

If however, your relationship has crossed the RELATIONSHIP RIFT, there is not much anyone can do to stop that train. Figuring out if your marriage is saveable, book a Power Hour call with Naked Divorce to help you assess the situation. There are 5 areas that need to be assessed across the 5 C’s:

1. Contemplate – each individual’s ability to fully know themselves and own their own stuff. If each person is willing to work on this, that’s a good thing
2. Comprehend – each individual’s ability to understand and accept the strengths and weaknesses of the other. Unwillingness to accept each other is a big red flag
3. Commit – The extent to which both people have both feet in, don’t leave, stay the course and stay in the game
4. Communicate – The way you communicate – whether you engage in harsh startups, flooding, criticism, contempt, defensiveness or stonewalling can be a death knell to your relationships. We can tell within 5 minutes of talking to a couple if they will divorce or not…
5. Court – Evaluating as a couple how much you both prioritize the relationship, woo and create desire between each other…

We can tell within a detailed assessment if your relationship is saveable and give you options. If however, your divorce looks like it’s going ahead, we can help you project manage the steps and help you negotiate your outcomes to minimise costs and impact. We have over a decade’s experience in helping people get the best outcomes, often saving them thousands if not millions each year.

The Naked Divorce Clarity Retreat is 97% faster than Traditional therapy at helping you choose what to do

Why the Clarity Retreat?

There are three magic ingredients…

Whilst the content we deliver in The Clarity Retreat is largely similar to that of our Divorce Assessment, it’s undeniable that the results achieved on our Retreats are vastly superior. Here’s why…

There are three (3) critical differences between the Haven and our 21 Day Emotional Freedom Program.

• Intensity

  If you jog for once a week, in 6 months time your fitness will improve a fraction if at all. If you train 4 times a week, the results after just 2 months will be vastly superior. This is totally logical. And it’s exactly the same with trauma recovery. The more intense the effort, the greater the reward. A 5 day retreat, is (obviously) far more intensive than a 3 hour Divorce Assessment. On the retreat we go into a great amount of detail and review every angle of your marriage and potential divorce (which is itself vastly more intense, and productive than an hour call with a therapist once a week). This means that the decision you make can be made with confidence.

• Face2Face Interaction with expert in divorce

  Whilst the Naked Divorce team are experts in remote communication, there are certain exercises the therapists can do in-person which make a massive difference to the intensity of your transformation. Working with Adele on this assessment is a very intense and personal journey which not only leads to clarity, but to making some clear commitments to your transformation. Adele’s corporate background means you will most certainly leave with a detailed project plan for life moving forward! The Clarity retreat can be done alone or as a couple.

• Location

  Getting out of your normal environment means that you can focus on your healing in a way you cannot do at home. It makes total sense that a vacation will assist in emotional clarity. If you want to reduce stress, and want to gain more happiness you need to escape your normal environment. We choose beautiful locations but often run our retreats on location with our clients too.

Naked Divorce Recovery Data​

Data: Data above is based on self assessment from customers completing the Naked Divorce Clarity and Haven retreats as well as all our online programs. This program (or variations) started in 2012 and data has been recorded from mid 2017.

Data: Data is updated every quarter. Last Update: 03 Jan 2020.

Make Sure You Don’t Become Addicted to Therapy for Years

There are 3 significant costs to traditional therapy…

Financial: typical cost is equivalent to 6-12 annual holidays [USA]. 

Time: Typically lasts a little under 1.5 years. 

Relationships: Any chance of finding the love of your dreams whilst you still have issues from the past are significantly hampered.