World's No.1 Divorce Decision Retreat

Making one of the toughest decisions of your life is best achieved away from your normal environment. Take this moment seriously because if your marriage is saveable, you should focus on saving it…

Clarity Call

"Sometimes we have to escape our surroundings to find ourselves"

Adèle Théron
Naked Divorce

What you might be going through in the early stages following a divorce

When your marriage is on the brink, life is so draining and depressing. You might be arguing all the time and unsure what to do. When your quality of life dips completely, it’s time to make a big decision: Either focus on completing rebuilding your relationship with our Spark Program OR choose to move forward alone. Living in limbo can suck the life out of you, so if you are in this space, getting clarity is a top priority…

Problems sleeping
Problems concentrating or remembering things
Feeling hypervigilant
Upsetting arguments and undue stress communicating
Nostalgia from the past, where your reality is SO polar opposite
Feeling physically and emotionally upset
Feeling disconnected or numb
Feelings of guilt/ shame or panic

Heres the bad news

Many people live in this limbo for months if not years and their health suffers massively. If they divorce too quickly, the vast majority of people will go on to have unsuccessful relationships in the future.  We know this because the divorce rate gets higher with second and third marriages. The reality is: THIS IS ONE OF THE TOUGHEST DECISIONS YOU WILL EVER MAKE. So getting total clarity on this is critical to moving forward either way. If your relationship is save-able: crack on and rebuild it from scratch. If not: Get moving on consciously uncoupling with as little drama as possible.

Heres the good news

At Naked Divorce we have extensive experience in assessing whether a marriage is saveable or not. We have a program to support saving the marriage and programs to support couples and children to heal from divorce. Either which way, living in limbo in an unhappy situation impacts you, your kids and your health and life negatively. Also, if you leave an ailing marriage too long, saving it becomes less achievable over time. Getting clarity gets you out of resignation and back into the driving seat of this situation.

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DecideHow do I know if divorce is for me?

Deciding to divorce is a massive choice to make. Getting married is the biggest commitment you have ever made so choosing to undo that is not something to be taken lightly. We have sessions available to help you get clear on whether divorce is the right decision for you. We believe in people doing everything they can to save their marriage and in evaluating whether divorce is for you or not, you have the option to do the Naked Marriage SPARK program to work with your partner to see if your marriage is salvageable. In many cases, we find that it can be.


If however, your relationship has crossed the RELATIONSHIP RIFT, there is not much anyone can do to stop that train. Figuring out if your marriage is saveable, book a Power Hour call with Naked Divorce to help you assess the situation. There are 5 areas that need to be assessed across the 5 C’s:

  1. Contemplate – each individual’s ability to fully know themselves and own their own stuff. If each person is willing to work on this, that’s a good thing
  2. Comprehend – each individual’s ability to understand and accept the strengths and weaknesses of the other. Unwillingness to accept each other is a big red flag
  3. Commit – The extent to which both people have both feet in, don’t leave, stay the course and stay in the game
  4. Communicate – The way you communicate – whether you engage in harsh startups, flooding, criticism, contempt, defensiveness or stonewalling can be a death knell to your relationships. We can tell within 5 minutes of talking to a couple if they will divorce or not…
  5. Court – Evaluating as a couple how much you both prioritize the relationship, woo and create desire between each other…

We can tell within a detailed assessment if your relationship is saveable and give you options. If however, your divorce looks like it’s going ahead, we can help you project manage the steps and help you negotiate your outcomes to minimise costs and impact. We have over a decade’s experience in helping people get the best outcomes, often saving them thousands if not millions each year.

Problems with traditional therapy…​

Are your goals and those of the traditional therapist aligned?

The reality is that a professional therapist only earns income for as long as your ‘problem’ remains. They are financially incentivized for your issue to continue for as long as possible, often years.

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No guarantee​ - Traditional therapy has no guarantee of success
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Not fast​ - Traditional therapy takes months, often years
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Limited-tech​ - 80%+ only have expertise in one therapy
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Not cheap - Average cost = $7,436.00 - $14,872.00 (USA)
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Not expert​ - Not specialized in getting over divorce trauma

Don't just ride the rollercoaster of limbo...

Risks caused by the limbo and pain of no clarity are significant and real both physically and mentally. But with courage, commitment, and action – you can choose whether to save your marriage or to divorce consciously. We guarantee it.



Data: Web MD study conducted in 2019 – check statistics here:



Data: National Center for Biotechnology Information



Divorce Rates: 1st marriage: 50%, 2nd: 67%, 3rd: 74% [USA]

A better healing solution…​

The Naked Divorce Clarity Retreat was built to give you clarity on saving your marriage or choosing to divorce, so you can get back to living, rather than being stuck in limbo.

Guaranteed - 30 day money-back guarantee included with every program
Fast - Intensive program, achieves rapid results
Multi-tech - Highly trained across many trauma coaching technologies
Divorce Program - Cheap
Fixed cost - All our programs are transparent with fixed pricing
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Expert - We are specialists in getting over divorce

The Naked Divorce Clarity Retreat is 97% faster than Traditional therapy at helping you choose what to do

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Recovering and reclaiming your life measured in weeks, not years…

The 5 day Clarity Retreat

The Clarity retreat can be done alone or as a couple.

It's time to get out of limbo and get clear on whether to divorce or not...

Why the Clarity Retreat?

There are three magic ingredients…

Whilst the content we deliver in The Clarity Retreat is largely similar to that of our Divorce Assessment, it’s undeniable that the results achieved on our Retreats are vastly superior. Here’s why…

There are three (3) critical differences between the Haven and our 21 Day Emotional Freedom Program.

  • Intensity

    If you jog for once a week, in 6 months time your fitness will improve a fraction if at all. If you train 4 times a week, the results after just 2 months will be vastly superior. This is totally logical. And it’s exactly the same with trauma recovery. The more intense the effort, the greater the reward. A 5 day retreat, is (obviously) far more intensive than a 3 hour Divorce Assessment. On the retreat we go into a great amount of detail and review every angle of your marriage and potential divorce (which is itself vastly more intense, and productive than an hour call with a therapist once a week). This means that the decision you make can be made with confidence.

  • Face2Face Interaction with expert in divorce

    Whilst the Naked Divorce team are experts in remote communication, there are certain exercises the therapists can do in-person which make a massive difference to the intensity of your transformation. Working with Adele on this assessment is a very intense and personal journey which not only leads to clarity, but to making some clear commitments to your transformation. Adele’s corporate background means you will most certainly leave with a detailed project plan for life moving forward! The Clarity retreat can be done alone or as a couple.

  • Location

    Getting out of your normal environment means that you can focus on your healing in a way you cannot do at home. It makes total sense that a vacation will assist in emotional clarity. If you want to reduce stress, and want to gain more happiness you need to escape your normal environment. We choose beautiful locations but often run our retreats on location with our clients too.


Whitianga, New Zealand

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New Zealand's most spectacular natural attraction, Milford Sound can be enjoyed on an optional excursion

Queenstown, New Zealand

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Monterey Bay, California, USA

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Your Healing Ingredients

These unique ingredients that make The Clarity Retreat the No.1 Divorce Decision Retreat in the World…

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1-2-1 private coaching with reknowned Divorce Coaches
Scientifically choreographed days that will stimulate recovery
An intense goal-focused program that guarantees results
No other recovery programme on the planet like The Haven
No other divorce recovery program on the planet like The Haven
Celebrities, Royalty, CEO's appreciate the total privacy we provide
Celebrities, Royalty, CEO's appreciate the total privacy we provide
Support starts before you arrive, and includes 30 days post-event follow-up
Support starts before you arrive, and includes 30 days post-event follow-up

Naked Divorce Recovery Data​

Collated user feedback taken prior to Naked Divorce and after the completion of Naked Divorce

Data: Data above is based on self assessment from customers completing the Naked Divorce Clarity and Haven retreats as well as all our online programs. This program (or variations) started in 2012 and data has been recorded from mid 2017.

Data: Data is updated every quarter. Last Update: 03 Jan 2020.

Naked Divorce Established


Adele Theron

The UKs number 1 Divorce Coach

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Adele Theron Naked Divorce Divorce Coach Get Over Divorce Program

The Founder of Naked Divorce Adèle Théron speaking on stage at the Mermaid Theatre, London

Make Sure You Don’t Become Addicted to Therapy for Years

There are 3 significant costs to traditional therapy…

Financial: typical cost is equivalent to 6-12 annual holidays [USA]. 

Time: Typically lasts a little under 1.5 years. 

Relationships: Any chance of finding the love of your dreams whilst you still have issues from the past are significantly hampered.

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Your Clarity Retreat Contains...

Daily therapy and homework
Divorce Assessment
Personal program
Clarity Pack
Clarity Excursions
Daily Declarations
Thoughts of the day
Clarity Workbook
Calming Anxiety audio
Daily checklist
24/7 support available

Clarity Curriculum

WARM UP PHASE (3 hours)

There is a warm-up phase to this retreat where you have an initial call with Adele to explain your situation at a high level. This helps her to tailor the retreat content to your situation and to give you further pre-work to best prepare for the retreat, if required.

The Clarity retreat can be done alone or as a couple…

Divorce CocoonThe first module is focused on restoring balance. You will do this module remotely with your Divorce Coach as you prepare for the Clarity Retreat. The stress of making a massive decision weighs very heavily upon us and our emotions can go haywire. Before you consider making any critical decisions, we first need to get you grounded, and emotionally stable. To begin, you’ll create a strong solid foundation so you have a supportive environment to contain your transformation.

You’ll regain confidence, self-esteem and control.  And feel invincibly tough in the face of change or criticism.  And you’ll absorb the principles, ethics and structure of the program, so you’re ready and excited to begin transforming. If you are in the middle of your divorce then we may recommend to make the cocoon period a bit longer. Only leave cocoon once you have passed the test!

  • About you
  • Healthy GROUNDED Routines
  • Daily Checklist
  • Follow the rules
  • Physicality
  • Foundation
  • Working on Compassion so you release any shame associated to making decisions freely

MetamorphosisHere the true healing begins. Once you arrive on location you will be cocooned. Inside the cocoon, the caterpillar is rapidly healing and changing, preparing to burst out as a beautiful butterfly. A caterpillar CANNOT grow wings without being contained but once contained, the real work can begin… With step-by-step guidance and around-the-clock support , you’ll work with your Divorce Coach on taking steps daily to reach clarity on what to do with your life. With intensive work on your relationship, your values, your principles and exploring all ways forward, clarity begins to emerge.

The Metamorphosis involves intensive work to focus on your relationship, critical learnings, what the source of the issues are and exploring what to do next. Rapid changes happen within a short period of time. 

  • Telling your Relationship story
  • Consideration of all perspectives
  • Healing pains and issues
  • The Divorce Assessment
  • Shifting your Perception
  • Releasing negative emotions
  • The Marriage principles to test if saveable
  • Sources of issues in the relationship
  • Forgiveness
  • Designing the Future framework
  • Next Steps…

ReleaseOnce your are on your way home, you have a month to complete these steps  with your Divorce Coach.With all pain and emotional trauma gone, feeling light, free and happy, you’re now ready to work on your future, dreams and desires.
Get back in touch with yourself again, change beliefs, set boundaries, and know with crystal clarity what you want either taking forward momentum on your relationship using the Spark Program OR on moving forward in a conscious uncoupling way with Separation Shift or one of our other programs. The Release focuses on your future, your relationship with yourself, and getting back in touch with who you are as a person or as a couple. 

As you enter the final stages of Release, not only will you feel more alive, but you will begin to be free from the constraints of the past and from making excuses to delay having the life you deserve and love. 

Haven in a nutshell



Clear Steps

Clear Steps

Daily Tasks

Daily Tasks



Goal Orientated

Goal Orientated

Maintain high performance

Maintain high performance

Benefits of doing the Clarity Retreat

Get your life back - Time is the ultimate perishable resource. Once it is gone, it is gone forever. Get clear on your path and start taking steps forward, and claim your life back now.

Life Lessons - Learning is healing. Healing is learning. The lessons you will learn during this program will be valuable to you across many areas of your life.

Dare to Dream - Dare to dream of a bigger life, a more ambitious, bolder life, with more rewards. You deserve it.

Learn to Love Again - Whether you stay married or choose to divorce, it’s simple, a life lived with love is better. This program will help you attract the right love into your life.

Self Confidence - Knowing in your soul that you can overcome adversity is incredibly valuable to any person's self-confidence, and capability.

Inspire Others - By expanding your personal development, you will inspire friends, family, and if you have them, your children.

Just a few of our testimonials

Haven Retreaters share their experience

“A really transformational experience. I didn’t expect to feel better within a week and I really did. Totally changed life as I know it”

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“Unbelievable, really life changing”

Canadian Catherine shares her transformational experience of doing the Haven retreat in Chiang Mai.

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Catherine on doing the Haven Naked Divorce retreat

“The best decision I’ve ever made!”

Marie shares her experiences of doing the Haven Retreat at Chang Mai. She couldn’t believe the results!

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Marie shares her experience of doing the Haven Retreat @ Chiang Mai

“I found forgiveness in my heart”

Naked Divorce is a massive blessing! Before I met Adele and the team I believed I would always feel angry. I was wrong!

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S shares her experience of the Naked Divorce Haven Retreat

“It really is a God send!”

What changed though was my ability to now remain very calm and feel in control of my own emotions.

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Nada thanks Naked Divorce for helping her truly heal from the pain of her divorce

“My life’s completely changed!”

I feel the process short circuited a lot of wasted energy and pain and got my back on my feet in double quick time.

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Jonothan has seen his life change for the better after completing the 21 day programme with Naked Divorce
Jonathan, CEO, Singapore
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"Our goal is to empower 100,000 people to choose to stay married and fix that OR choose to heal from divorce and see it as a crossroads in their life vs. the crisis it is for so many people globally" - Naked Divorce Team

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