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3 ways you’re dooming your relationship before it’s began

Posted on September 4th, 2016 Overcome divorce challenges

Have you been single since what seems like forever – and miserable about it? If so, you may be falling into one of these common self-defeating traps. 1) You raise the wrong bars way too high. I’m not suggesting you settle for something or someone that just isn’t right for you. I’ve talked before at […]

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A Tale of Two Singletons: Part One – You Don’t Know What’s Good for You

Posted on March 22nd, 2016

We all have that amazing friend who’s perpetually single, and we just can’t work out why.  You know the type: she’s smart, brilliant, beautiful and tons of fun. She dips her toes in the dating pool – perhaps she’s even the type who always seems to have the next date lined up. And yet, nothing […]

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This Is What Happens When You Stop Making An Effort

Posted on September 23rd, 2015

Disney has a lot to answer for when it comes to preparing kids for real life. Stories about falling in love always end with “I do” – but we all know that’s where the hard work begins.
Relationships need nurture and care. Not just in the first flush of romance. Not just when you’re falling in love. Not just on your honeymoon.

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Accept What You Can’t Change, Change What You Can’t Accept

Posted on August 19th, 2015

How much time did you waste in your last relationship hoping your partner would change? How much time did you waste complaining about the situation — but doing nothing about it? Perhaps you stayed with your ex for far longer than you should have done, just willing things to get better. Perhaps you’re angry with yourself, […]

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Is ‘Happy Ever After’ Just a Hollywood Dream?

Posted on February 16th, 2014

Valentine’s Day can be very special. Tempting chocolates, fragrant flowers, a delicious breakfast in bed, can all give you that wonderful inner glow that comes from knowing that you are very special to your partner. But once the comforting afterglow has faded, and ‘real life’ rudely interrupts again, sometimes it can seem as though your […]

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Are you single or living alone? You’re not alone on that one!

Posted on November 25th, 2012

Single life: What it really is Claudia Connell on Mail Online gives a painfully honest account of how she came to be living alone in middle-age. Now in her 40’s, Claudia talks of how her single life, once embraced and celebrated for its exciting perks, has lost its gloss. Claudia wrote in Mail online: “I […]

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Dating Post Divorce: Should we fake it till we make it?

Posted on November 7th, 2012

According to Mail Online there was an article written on why acting like you are in love can lead to the real thing. If you want to feel in love, perhaps you should fake it until you make it. The article suggested that if you behave in the way you want to be perceived by […]

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It’s Never Too Late to Find The One

Posted on September 9th, 2012

Jane Fonda on sex and intimacy The former fitness guru Jane Fonda, 74, recently revealed that she has been having the best sex of her life in the last few years. Jane — who has been married three times — said she and her partner, Richard Perry, who she first met 40 years ago, had discovered […]

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How the hell do I get back into the dating game after divorce?

Posted on May 5th, 2012

Find out some great tips here, including: Getting yourself sorted out first – get your past complete! Sort out our ex hexes from way back in the past (do you get insecure, angry or crazy in relationships) Ponder the qualities of the person you want to date in the future BUT without it becoming a […]

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Dating After Divorce…

Posted on June 25th, 2011

I’m often asked: ‘When is a good time to start dating?’ One of the difficulties people face when they’re ready to start dating is where and how to start. Starting too soon or for the wrong reasons is not going to help re-build your self-confidence or help you become open to new intimate relationships. Let’s […]

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