Month: May 2012

The REAL cost of divorce

Posted on May 26th, 2012

Divorce in many cases is becoming a fast route to poverty. Not only does divorce often bring a severe heartbreak that can take a vast time to heal.  Research shows that people are not healing from divorce. > The 2nd marriage divorce rate is 53% > 3rd marriage divorce rate is 72% and > 4th […]

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People magazine: How I found out…

Posted on May 26th, 2012

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How to deal with family and friends whilst experiencing your divorce

Posted on May 16th, 2012

Learn all about… Normal feelings after the humiliation of divorce and what to expect from family and friends Talking over and over again to family and friends and the dangers of doing that The problems associated with intellectualisation The benefits of getting support elsewhere If you enjoyed this post, I’d be very grateful if you’d […]

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How to stop getting hooked by your ex!!

Posted on May 10th, 2012

Manage your communication with your ex Establishing some ground rules… (it’s all ABOUT Buckets and Spoons :)) Allow them to vent – YES, actually LET them lose it whilst you file your nails (in your mind) Channel a powerful person (time for Queen Latifah to come out) Get a scripted answer to your issue – […]

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How the hell do I get back into the dating game after divorce?

Posted on May 5th, 2012

Find out some great tips here, including: Getting yourself sorted out first – get your past complete! Sort out our ex hexes from way back in the past (do you get insecure, angry or crazy in relationships) Ponder the qualities of the person you want to date in the future BUT without it becoming a […]

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Overcoming your failure mindset after your divorce

Posted on May 2nd, 2012

Write down what you can learn from the emotions which are hanging around Agonising is often a sign that you should adjust your diet… Find the Worry Buster exercise and do it today Find out about how to do the Naked Divorce today… If you enjoyed this post, I’d be very grateful if you’d help […]

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