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Are You Holding on to Divorce Suffering?

Posted on October 19th, 2012 Are You Holding on to Divorce Suffering?

Many of us have a moral dilemma with divorce. Do we take the steps to move on or stay stuck and suffer? For some, moving on may feel wrong. Consider the fact that if you are stay stuck in your pain, something else is going on. Take a look at this video, and feel free […]

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You Cannot Solve a Problem with the Same Thinking that Got You There

Posted on September 5th, 2012

Ever been stuck in a situation or a problem but not know how to get out of it? Life throws us lots of different hurdles and hiccups along the way. People disappoint us; we disappoint ourselves. But our biggest mistake is not that we made the mistake in the first place. Our past can determine who […]

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Instant Gratification Part 2: What’s Best for Me?

Posted on August 13th, 2012 Instant Gratification Part 2: What's Best for Me?

This article is a follow on from part 1. Read that here What is instant gratification? As human beings we tend to become fascinated by ourselves and our stories. We may allow ourselves to become too self-indulgent and it can be destructive. As long as we recognise the vision of where we want and need to be […]

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Avoid S.T.E.A.T.s during your divorce

Posted on April 10th, 2011

The way you handle the aftermath of divorce is very important, as this story illustrates. Imagine a child comes home from preschool with her feelings hurt by an interaction with a teacher. Mom asks: ‘What happened?’ The child responds tearfully that the teacher was mean to her. Mom says: ‘Don’t cry. Here, have a cookie, […]

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