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The Top 10 Reasons Parents Get Divorced
Featuring a guest blog from our friends over at www.nanny.net Very few people get married with the intention of getting divorced. The U.S. Census Bureau and research think tanks such as the Barna Group have revealed some sobering statistics and findings on the subject, though. Overall, the divorce rate is almost at 50%. The news on […]
Read MoreSigns Your Partner Might Be Cheating on You
We all like to think it could never happen to us, but sadly, straying partners are becoming ever more common. So what are some of the tell-tale signs that your partner is cheating on you? Here are some common points I have drawn up after evaluating 78 divorces (which ended due to cheating) in the […]
Read MoreOver 50 and forever single? Are you emasculating men?
In a recent article, Kate Mulvey bemoans the fact that as she approaches 50, she is not yet married, putting this down to the fact that men are unable to cope with a woman ‘outshining’ them. She refers to recent research confirming this, saying ‘I have lost count of the times men have rejected and […]
Read MoreThe Importance of Focusing on Yourself During a Breakup
Learning how to move on from a break up can be tough. If it wasn’t your choice, or perhaps it happened in a painful way, it’s tempting to dwell on your ex and what they are doing. But this is damaging. It stops your emotional healing and prevents you from moving on. Change can only […]
Read More20 Marriage Tips for the Men
Below are 20 wise marriage tips from a man that was recently divorced. You wouldn’t normally think that a divorced man would give good advice on being a husband, but this man has been through enough hardship to know what is worth fighting for. Marriage advice I wish I would have had Obviously, I’m not […]
Read MoreThe Danger of Suppression: Don’t Bottle Up Your Emotions
Any serious scientist will be familiar with the assertion that stress causes a compromised immune system. A recent study by researchers at Harvard School of Public Health has finally put this long-held knowledge into perspective, deciphering that those who bottle up their feelings have a cardiovascular disease risk of 140 percent and a risk of […]
Read MoreA Rant About Having Sex With an Ex Whilst Healing
There is an article in the Daily Mail today entitled “Why ‘ex-sex’ can be a good idea: Sleeping with an old lover lessens psychological distress of break-up… if you’re not over him” You can read all about it here: Apparently research from the University of Arizona (published in the Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology) found […]
Read MoreDivorcing? Key Financial Considerations to Keep in Mind
My late good friend Hannah Foxley wrote a corker of an article on things to consider financially before divorcing. She has sadly passed away since then but in her memory here are some tips written by her hand. Get ready for some good info… In the emotional haze of early divorce proceedings, it is often […]
Read MoreHow Does Divorce Impact Your Brain’s Function?
We all know what’s meant by trauma, don’t we? A divorce, miscarriage, a bereavement, serious road accident or being caught up in a natural disaster can destroy a person’s sense of who they are and what it means to be in the world. Any physical damage may or may not heal over time, but psychologically, […]
Read MoreHow Do You Heal Anger When You Want to Rip Someone’s Head Off?
What do you do when you are so angry you want to rip someone’s head off? You actually think you COULD drown your kids or bash someone with your shopping trolley and you are not sure how to control it. In those moments, if another hippy tells you “you need to relax” or recommends that […]
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