Category: * Divorce support

Instant Gratification vs. Long Term Strategy: What’s Best?

Posted on July 27th, 2012

Instant versus incremental Instant rewards and instant healing has a much nicer ring to it than the two combined words of long term. However, if waiting for a particular amount of time will help you further along in the long run, it stirs the question of whether waiting is more worthwhile. But how do you determine what works best […]

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No Fault Divorce – What This Means to Us

Posted on July 5th, 2012 No Fault Divorce – What This Means to Us

What is no-fault divorce? The UK laws of divorce have not been reformed since their introduction in 1969. However, there was a move and introduction to no–fault divorce shortly after 1970. No-fault divorce is a divorce in which the dissolution of a marriage does not require a showing of wrong-doing by either party. Laws providing for no-fault […]

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War of the Roses – the acrimonious divorce

Posted on June 30th, 2012

The War of the Roses was a civil war in England. The thirty years of warfare were even more destructive to England than the Hundred Years War had been in the previous century. With the petty disputes that occur between partners during a divorce these days, it seems necessary to title this article such. One in […]

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Your divorce: Are you an Eeyore or a Tigger?

Posted on June 18th, 2012

I remember my first Pooh bear book when I was a kid. I loved it to death and pawed at the pages on a daily basis. I was so in love with the characters that when it came time to find ways to earn money for my school as a debutante, I even wrote and […]

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Navigating Family and Friends During Divorce

Posted on May 16th, 2012 Discover key insights on navigating the pitfalls of over-sharing with family and friends, and the advantages of seeking support elsewhere.

Learn all about… Normal feelings after the humiliation of divorce and what to expect from family and friends Talking over and over again to family and friends and the dangers of doing that The problems associated with intellectualisation The benefits of getting support elsewhere If you enjoyed this post, I’d be very grateful if you’d […]

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How to support someone going through a divorce or break-up

Posted on February 19th, 2012 How to support someone going through a divorce or break up

Watching some go through trauma can be traumatic in itself. So how do we support someone going through the trauma of divorce or a break-up? In this article am not going to handle divorce from the point of view of the person going through the divorce but from the point of view of a supportive friend, colleague […]

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Your divorce is impacting your child’s exam results, so take action today

Posted on February 2nd, 2012 Handling divorce with kids

Several studies have been done in the past 10 years on the impact of divorce on children, specifically with regard to their academic performance and exam results. The *studies all suggest that although the psychological damage from divorce fades for children within a few years, their academic performance continues to decline. Yongmin Sun, co-author of […]

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The Ex-Factor – ex-etiquette, whether or not you have children!

Posted on January 8th, 2012

Ex-Etiquette where there are no children involved Divorce without children If your divorce does not involve children from the marriage or the relationship, there is technically no reason to maintain contact with your ex. That’s the good and the bad news. The good news is that you won’t have to deal with your ex again. […]

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Why therapy doesnt always work for everyone and what you should do about it!

Posted on December 28th, 2011

Now that I have stuffed myself full of mince pies and Christmas cheer – I think the time for jollyness has passed. I am in that place called the CRIMBO LIMBO – that weird Bermuda triangle time between Christmas and new year. It’s a time of reflection and – dare I say it – a […]

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Divorce Challenge #3: Handling divorce vs. your career

Posted on December 2nd, 2011

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