THANK YOU for creating this program and being my divorce angel these last few months. I was so upset when we first met, but this program gave me the tools to heal my heart and rebuild my strength and confidence. I also lovingly refer to you as the “narcissist whisperer,” as your advice as to how to approach my ex has worked wonders.

I am very proud to say that my divorce is coming along amicably, and we are on track to have everything finalized as soon as the state-required separation period has been fulfilled. The kids are doing great and adjusting. I met someone lovely, and we have been casually seeing each other. He is the OPPOSITE of my ex. He is the “boring” guy we discussed. Turns out, “boring” is pretty damn great.

Sally, I just wanted to say thank you for your hospitality! You made this trip so wonderful. I feel incredibly blessed that our paths crossed. You are the most beautiful person I have met.

I am leaving South Africa with a full heart and feeling confident about the future. And you are to thank for that.

Thank you isn’t enough but thank you! I’ll be back for sure.

THANK YOU for creating this program and being my divorce angel these last few months. I was so upset when we first met, but this program gave me the tools to heal my heart and rebuild my strength and confidence. I also lovingly refer to you as the “narcissist whisperer,” as your advice as to how to approach my ex has worked wonders.

I am very proud to say that my divorce is coming along amicably, and we are on track to have everything finalized as soon as the state-required separation period has been fulfilled. The kids are doing great and adjusting. I met someone lovely, and we have been casually seeing each other. He is the OPPOSITE of my ex. He is the “boring” guy we discussed. Turns out, “boring” is pretty damn great.

Sally, I just wanted to say thank you for your hospitality! You made this trip so wonderful. I feel incredibly blessed that our paths crossed. You are the most beautiful person I have met.

I am leaving South Africa with a full heart and feeling confident about the future. And you are to thank for that.

Thank you isn’t enough but thank you! I’ll be back for sure.

I think this is a very good and practical course . It is helping me already . I realize I have STATS daily and use socialization extensively whether golfing , going to parties, picnics , dinners with new friends , work … it is important to create the time for the course and for grounding activities . Adele the course creator is funny and entertaining in her presentations making her feel like a companion rather than an instructor. I feel optimistic.

Thank you to Salli Andrews and Adele Theron for your brilliance. This is an absolutely fantastic program and I am grateful that I found it and you. Over the years I sought counseling for marriage and childhood issues off and on through the years however nothing really seemed to make a big difference. It wasn’t until this program, where actual trauma was examined and addressed that I began to see the difference and the results. This program has changed my life. The structure and thought that went into each lesson along with the counseling support from Salli, my Divorce Angel, was perfectly planned out. There were times I wondered, how is this going to work or will this work but it always did, and because of that, on the days that I thought, I don’t want to do this, I pushed through because I wanted to continue to see positive results. I was not sure what the outcome of this program would be as I was on the fence about whether to stay or divorce my husband. The Emotional Freedom Program is just what I needed- to work on me. So much of this work is on you as an individual and your own hurt and trauma but what comes out of the work is healing, growth, love and care for yourself, and then coming out on the other side lighter, brighter, and feeling like the person you always were but was hidden down deep. This program and these amazing people bring this out in you and you cannot ask for anything better than to help yourself. Additionally, the cost for me was an initial barrier but I knew this was my last hope in my marriage and I wanted to put everything into making the right decision so if money is the deciding factor, please, for anyone reading this, don’t let it be. This will be the best investment you have ever made. But you have to do the work and dig deep, that is how you will get results. Last, I want to give a big thank you to Salli Andrews for being a fantastic coach and trauma counselor. Her guidance and coaching helped me to see myself, my childhood trauma (which was linked to so much of the here and now), and solidified what I was learning and working on in my lessons. She listens, knows what to focus on for my benefit, is very knowledgeable, has a pleasant presence, is professional, and really cares. I’m so grateful to have had the opportunity to work with her. This program and Salli’s coaching are truly the best gifts I have ever received so, THANK YOU!

Hi, my name is Meg…I’m a 44, an executive working in UK Financial Services (Financial Crime, Regulation and Risk) and a single mum to a 5yo boy who is my world. I did the Naked Divorce online course in April 2015 and it was nothing short of incredible! I’m an action oriented and results focussed individual. I didn’t want to spend endless hours going over childhood issues on a comfy sofa in Harley St with a CBT therapist. I just wanted to find a way to put my divorce behind me and move on so that I could continue to work at the top of my field without being hindered with emotional baggage. I’m well aware that if I just stuffed it inside and tried to ignore the pain (as I had done in the past) with a British ‘stiff upper lip’ approach that soon my ‘issues’ would negatively impact upon my credibility (and therefore my ability to provide the best for my son). Pretending I was FINE wasn’t going to work this time.

So I selected a Naked Divorce package that included one to one coaching sessions that compliment the online course with the founder, Adele. Even though it was online, it wasn’t cheap. However, the lure of a programme that claims it can undo the damage and free me up to lead an extraordinary life within 21 DAYS was too tempting for me to pass. So instead of hesitating, I trusted a friend who had recommended Naked Divorce and signed up. The cynic in me kept thinking the programme promises were too good to be true so I wasn’t, in all honestly, holding out much hope. But it was the most accessible to fit in around my other commitments and the quickest results programme I found so I went for it.

So what is the course? The Naked Divorce programme comes with a book that you read a chapter a day…and very specific instructions about how to do the programme including diet and sleeping habits that participants adopt as necessary for the programme to work. The first few days were exciting and yet a bit too touchy-feely for me. I realised I’d actually become numb as a coping mechanism – so actively focusing on the emotions of my pain was a challenge for me. My first call with Adele was incredible. She is so insightful and asked me really thought provoking questions and kept encouraging me to really feel what I was trying to suppress. This was scary for me. However, she was so passionate and I felt like she really cared about me getting the most from this programme. It was obvious to me that she wasn’t just doing this as a way to make money. I was astounded she was so on point and knowledgeable about the impacts of trauma. She picked up on things I was reluctant to express with laser sharp accuracy. She wasn’t interested in me getting superficial results – she genuinely wanted me to have the miracle results I dreamt for myself!

One of the elements of her programme is what she calls STEATs. STEATs are short-term emotional avoidance tactics and I realised just how many of my life-choices were made this way. It was a profound realisation for me. During the coaching session, Adele probed deeper snd I was able to discover just how pervasive this ‘coping mechanism’ was for me. Once I saw this, I was immediately able to make conscious choices again and this little insight alone was worth the cost of the programme!!

About mid-way through the 21 days, I asked if we could pause as I wanted time to reflect and just be with some of the things I has learned. She was OK with this and actually checked in with me to make sure I was still going forward.

By the end of the 21days I was UNRECOGNISABLE in the way I was acting, how I was leading my life and how I was able to interact with my ex. I was FREE! I felt so unburdened with the baggage of past trauma. Not only was I able to accept my divorce but I was able to create a new future that I was genuinely excited about. Life became an adventure again.

It’s been almost 3 years since I did Naked Divorce and I can still honestly say it was an incredible gift to give to myself and has allowed me to powerfully handle my divorce. I have very little bitterness about my ex and we are able to peacefully focus now on how we raise our son. I still find myself rereading parts of the book. And as you would suspect, I always
suggest to my friends who are going through a divorce that they do this programme!