"To change the concept of divorce, we need to release the belief structures we have around marriage that create rigidity in our thought process"
Habib Sodeghi
Choosing to pull the plug on the biggest commitment you ever made ain’t for sissies. Being on the receiving end of divorce also ain’t a picnic. So it’s totally normal to feel all these PTSD symptoms…
The vast majority of people do not have a very pleasant divorce experience. So many misunderstandings take place and most people feel like their ex has become some alien they can no longer communicate with. The reality is, unless you take action and ensure your separation is a success, chances are it will get ugly.
Separating successfully is a function of great communication and this is best done with a neutral party guiding, teaching and leading you both to achieve your peaceful outcomes. Consciously uncoupling is just a few steps away. Separating well is a function of having the right focus, support and careful progression through the stages of transition.
Hear how hundreds of people have had support and completely recovered using Naked Divorce…
It was such an incredible experience. I was so resigned and ‘fine’ and then this course just blew me away. I feel so grateful I found it
I am so glad I did this journey – it was lifechanging and I feel free again
Canadian Catherine shares her transformational experience of doing the Haven retreat in Chiang Mai.
Risks caused by divorce are significant and real both physically and mentally. But with courage, commitment, and joint action, you can consciously uncouple and move forward in the best way possible. We guarantee it.
Data: Web MD study conducted in 2019 – check statistics here: www.webmd.com
Data: National Center for Biotechnology Information www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
Divorce Rates: 1st marriage: 50%, 2nd: 67%, 3rd: 74% [USA]
Are your goals and those of the traditional therapist aligned?
The reality is that a professional therapist only earns income for as long as your ‘problem’ remains. They are financially incentivized for your issue to continue for as long as possible, often years.
As an expert working in divorce for over 12 years, I can tell you that the one of the biggest mistakes people make is they abdicate ALL divorce negotiations onto their lawyer. Another issue is people rush the business-side of divorce THINKING they will feel free if they close their divorce. Abdicating is a mistake because in my experience, not all lawyers have your best interests at heart. Rushing also won’t help you to feel free, you will just have potentially risked your settlement by rushing…
Separation Shift was built to help couples repair the communication elements from their marriage in their divorce so that they can transition their relationship into being amazing co-parents or to release one another with peace. Separation Shift works with each person individually and the couple as three separate entities.
"The Internet's #1 Divorce Recovery Company"
The Divorce Magazine
Here is where we work on all the goals you want to achieve as individuals and as a couple in the next 3 months. Get to a place of clarity of what your objectives are and complete our Goal-Getter program module to ensure you know what you want and we are all aligned in getting you there.
During this module you will be given our breakthrough Goal-Getter audio program to help program all your goals into the subconscious part of your brain using Adele’s Clinical Hypnotherapy brain-entrainment technology.
NOTE: All participants in Separation Shift automatically get the Naked Divorce Emotional Freedom and Talk to the Kids programs complimentary with their coaching program…
The first module is focused on restoring balance. During a significant separation, breakup, or divorce, our emotions can go haywire. Before you consider making any critical decisions, we first need to get you grounded, and emotionally stable. To begin, you’ll create a strong solid foundation so you have a supportive environment to contain your transformation.
You’ll regain confidence, self-esteem and control. And feel invincibly tough in the face of change or criticism. In this stage we will cover:-
Inside the cocoon, the caterpillar is rapidly healing and changing, preparing to burst out as a beautiful butterfly. A caterpillar CANNOT grow wings without being contained but once contained, the real work can begin… With step-by-step guidance and around-the-clock support, you’ll focus with high intention on your strategy and implementing the plan we have designed. The topics we cover include:-
Re-gaining power over your life, begin to plan for your future
Get back in touch with yourself again and design your future as a couple – if appropriate. Change your beliefs, set boundaries, and know with crystal clarity what you are doing next. The Future Focus phase focuses on your future, your relationship with yourself, and getting back in touch with who you are as individuals.
The topics include:-
The Founder of Naked Divorce Adèle Théron speaking on stage at the Mermaid Theatre, London
First is what we call Learning Resistance and second is what we call Learning Defiance.
This is also known as DENIAL or an unwillingness to accept reality.
The signs you might be stuck here is you might be trying to win back your ex. Perhaps you think this is just a ‘phase’ they are going through. Sometimes this makes people bury their head in the sand, retreat or feel unwilling to accept the reality. Often people in this space experience obsessive rumination which consumes a lot of energy.
What needs to happen to move on: Accept you cannot make this divorce un-happen. Accept reality.
This is when you accept the reality BUT you are unwilling to adjust to reality. You might be digging your heels in, in some way…
The signs you are stuck here is you might be feeling angry or engaging in furious activity to avoid dealing with the reality. Perhaps you are unintentionally or intentionally making it hard on your ex to move on or perhaps you are unwilling to cooperate with the divorce. Another sign is if you are keeping everything secretive or ignoring the situation or hiding out behind short term emotion avoidance tactics
What needs to happen to move on: You need to accept that moving on and HEALING from this is a function of accepting reality and beginning the process of LEARNING from what has happened. Learning cannot happen if you don’t face the change or adjust to the change. The sooner you start to accept that this divorce happened and you need to learn the lessons from this to move on, the sooner you will adjust. Be open to learning. You can’t always control what happens in your life, but can control what happens next.
It was such an incredible experience. I was so resigned and ‘fine’ and then this course just blew me away. I feel so grateful I found it
I am so glad I did this journey – it was lifechanging and I feel free again
Canadian Catherine shares her transformational experience of doing the Haven retreat in Chiang Mai.
I was just amazed at how each step truly worked and how I felt myself making legitimate progress with each!
Maria shares her experience of completing the course with Sally.
Her keen insights, emotional support & guidance were superb for my issues. I recovered after 60 years!
*taken from over 6132 participants over 6 years
"Our goal is to empower 100,000 people to heal from divorce and see it as a crossroads in their life vs. the crisis it is for so many people globally" - Naked Divorce Team
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