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There are seven emotional steps to a full recovery following divorce. The Naked Divorce programs will move you through each of these phases. First, you need to find out how you are doing by taking the test…

Why is Divorce so hard to recover from?

Where are you on this journey?

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Risks caused by divorce are significant and real both physically and mentally. But with courage, commitment, and action – you can recover in about 21 days. We guarantee it.

20
%

RISK HEART DISEASE

Data: Web MD study conducted in 2019 – check statistics here: www.webmd.com

23
%

RISK OF DEATH

Data: National Center for Biotechnology Information www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

67
%

2ND DIVORCE RATE

Divorce Rates: 1st marriage: 50%, 2nd: 67%, 3rd: 74% [USA]

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What you might be going through in the early stages following a divorce

With a divorce, almost everyone will feel jumpy, and it is normal to have intrusive memories of the break up event or things the other person said. Approximately two out of three of people will find that these symptoms fade over time. Other people may find that negative symptoms emerge sometime after the divorce occurred and almost seem to come “out of the blue”. This can seem very confusing, and they may ask themselves “why now?”. The truth is that divorce can trigger Post Traumatic Stress Disorder in some people and if not treated, can lead to long-term issues…

Problems sleeping
Problems concentrating or remembering things
Feeling hypervigilant
Upsetting memories come into your mind when you don’t want them to
Intense memories where it feels as though the trauma is happening to you again
Nightmares
Feeling physically and emotionally upset
Feeling disconnected or numb
Feelings of guilt/ shame or panic

If you find yourself STUCK and not moving on, there are some blocks to moving on and developing your resiliency…

First is what we call Learning Resistance and second is what we call Learning Defiance.

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Learning Resistance

This is also known as DENIAL or an unwillingness to accept reality.

The signs you might be stuck here is you might be trying to win back your ex. Perhaps you think this is just a ‘phase’ they are going through. Sometimes this makes people bury their head in the sand, retreat or feel unwilling to accept the reality. Often people in this space experience obsessive rumination which consumes a lot of energy.

What needs to happen to move on: Accept you cannot make this divorce un-happen. Accept reality.

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Learning Defiance

This is when you accept the reality BUT you are unwilling to adjust to reality. You might be digging your heels in, in some way…

The signs you are stuck here is you might be feeling angry or engaging in furious activity to avoid dealing with the reality. Perhaps you are unintentionally or intentionally making it hard on your ex to move on or perhaps you are unwilling to cooperate with the divorce. Another sign is if you are keeping the person on their pedestal or keeping everything secretive or ignoring the situation or hiding out behind short term emotion avoidance tactics

What needs to happen to move on: You need to accept that moving on and HEALING from this is a function of accepting reality and beginning the process of LEARNING from what has happened. Learning cannot happen if you don’t face the change or adjust to the change. The sooner you start to accept that this divorce happened and you need to learn the lessons from this to move on, the sooner you will adjust. Be open to learning. You can’t always control what happens in your life, but can control what happens next.


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Transformed after 10 years of trauma.

After my traumatic separation, the 21-day program with my coach Adele helped me find hope and healing. With daily routines, I’m now a better, more grounded and empathetic person.

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How Adele Helped Us Find Our Voices and Separate as Friends

After 16 years together, my husband and I were trapped in a cycle of resentment and silence, unable to communicate. Adele’s no-nonsense, mirror-holding approach helped us rediscover our voices and gain self-awareness we never thought possible. With her guidance, we’re separating as friends, co-parenting successfully, and embracing this transition with open communication and mutual respect. Adele’s expertise is truly life-changing.

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Naked Divorce really allowed me to focus on my effort. This is a huge determining factor in the overall success!

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I was just amazed at how each step truly worked and how I felt myself making legitimate progress with each!

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