The Silent Struggles

Divorce isn’t just a legal process – it’s an emotional journey that can leave deep scars and wounds. Behind the legal paperwork and logistical changes, there’s an emotional journey that often goes unnoticed. If you’ve experienced the dissolution of a marriage, you know that the pain it brings is unlike any other. The sleepless nights, the overwhelming sadness, the anxiety about the future – these are the silent struggles that divorce brings. It’s a time when your world feels like it’s turned upside down, and every aspect of your life is touched by the process. But in the midst of this pain, there is hope, healing, and a path towards a brighter future. It’s okay to feel lost and uncertain during this time. You’re not alone in your pain.

Why Does a Brief Escape Work Wonders?

Imagine a canvas blanketed in uncharted landscapes, each holding the promise of unraveling the enigma that is you. It’s in these uncharted territories that the transformative power of new environments in self-discovery comes to light. While it might seem counterintuitive to seek understanding within the unfamiliar, science tells us that these unexplored terrains can be the very catalysts for delving into the depths of our own psyche.

• Disrupting Routine and Igniting Self-Awareness:
  Stepping into the unknown disrupts the well-worn grooves of routine. Our minds, ever-adaptive, awaken from the slumber of familiarity, inviting us to explore the landscape of our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. This heightened self-awareness isn’t a coincidence; it’s a psychological phenomenon backed by science. In a study published in “Psychological Science” (2013), researchers found that embracing novel experiences and environments triggers a mindful state of mind, enhancing our awareness and nurturing personal growth.
• Contextual Alchemy: The Influence of Environments on Identity:
  Environments are like alchemists, weaving potions that conjure different facets of our identity. Each locale holds the key to unlocking latent aspects of our personality, beckoning them to the surface. Scientific insights from the “Journal of Research in Personality” (2005) emphasize that where we are often shapes who we become. Thus, venturing into new environments isn’t just a physical journey; it’s a path to discovering the multi-dimensional tapestry of our own being.
• The Kaleidoscope of Creativity and New Perspectives:
  Unfamiliar landscapes are a playground for creativity and perspective-taking. The uncharted terrain prompts us to think beyond the borders of convention, fostering cognitive flexibility and an expanded worldview. From such vantage points, we not only view the world differently, but we also turn this gaze inwards. Research in “Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin” (2010) illuminates how diverse experiences foster creativity and the ability to understand multiple viewpoints, both crucial in plumbing the depths of self-understanding.
• Liberation Beyond Comfort Zones:
  Our comfort zones are like well-trodden paths, providing assurance but stunting growth. Stepping into the unexplored disrupts the familiar rhythm, challenging us to face uncertainties head-on. Scientific revelations from “Motivation and Emotion” (2012) underline that confronting the unknown fosters a surge in self-efficacy, propelling us to overcome challenges. In doing so, we unearth our latent strengths and illuminate the path to personal evolution.

As we venture into uncharted domains, we embark on an odyssey of self-discovery. Science beckons us to embrace the unfamiliar as a conduit for transformation. These novel environments disrupt our routines, coax our multifaceted identity into the light, stoke the fires of creativity, and liberate us from the confines of comfort. So, let us heed the call of the unknown, for it is in these unexplored lands that we uncover the profound truths that lie within ourselves.

Turn Your Pain into Power

While the pain of divorce is real, it doesn’t have to define your future. Our trauma coaching program is built on the belief that healing is possible, and your pain can be transformed into personal growth and resilience. We’re here to guide you through a process of self-discovery, healing, and empowerment. Together, we’ll help you find the strength to rebuild your life and create a new chapter filled with hope and positivity.

After a divorce, the vast majority of people will go on to have unsuccessful relationships in the future.  We know this because the divorce rate gets higher with second and third marriages. The reality is, unless you take action, heal from this properly and get to the source of your divorce, you won’t be able to go on and have sustainable and loving relationships.

Your divorce healing journey is not an unknown mystery.  And you don’t have to live with the pain forever, or repeat the same relationship patterns ever again.The healing process simply needs the right focus, support and careful progression through the stages of transformation.  With a discreet system even the busiest of professionals can follow.

The Naked Divorce Haven Retreat is 96% faster than Traditional therapy

It’s time to get busy healing from your divorce…

Why the Haven Retreat?

There are three magic ingredients…

Whilst the content we deliver in The Haven Retreat is largely similar to that of our 21 Day Emotional Freedom program, it’s undeniable that the results achieved on our Retreats are vastly superior. Here’s why…

There are three (3) critical differences between the Haven and our 21 Day Emotional Freedom Program.

• Intensity

  If you jog for once a week, in 6 months time your fitness will improve a fraction if at all. If you train 4 times a week, the results after just 2 months will be vastly superior. This is totally logical. And it’s exactly the same with trauma recovery. The more intense the effort, the greater the reward. A 7 day or 10 day retreat, is (obviously) far more intensive that a 21 day program (which is itself vastly more intense, and productive than an hour call with a therapist once a week).

• Face2Face Interaction with expert in divorce

  Whilst the Naked Divorce team are experts in remote communication, there are certain exercises the therapists can do in-person which make a massive difference to the intensity of your transformation.

• Location

  Getting out of your normal environment means that you can focus on your healing in a way you cannot do at home. It makes total sense that a vacation will assist in emotional recovery
  If you want to reduce stress, and want to gain more happiness you need to escape your normal environment. We choose beautiful locations but often run our retreats on location with our clients too.

Naked Divorce Recovery Data​

Data: Data above is based on self assessment from customers completing the Naked Divorce Haven Retreat and online programs. This program (or variations) started in 2012 and data has been recorded from mid 2017.

Data: Data is updated every quarter. Lat update: May 2024

Make Sure You Don’t Become Addicted to Therapy for Years

There are 3 significant costs to traditional therapy…

Financial: typical cost is equivalent to 6-12 annual holidays [USA]. 

Time: Typically lasts a little under 1.5 years. 

Relationships: Any chance of finding the love of your dreams whilst you still have issues from the past are significantly hampered.

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