A summary for those feeling Dazed!
There are 5 specific break-up personality types. Each have their strengths and weaknesses. Learning more about yours will help you move forward…
You’ve arrived in this state due to a significant emotional trauma.
Humans work best when they have a destination. When we don’t have a destination, or worse still our destination has been taken away from us – we tend not to function well.
Being in a significant relationship or a marriage tends to provoke long term questions, like raising a family, where you might see yourself in years to come – it’s big picture thinking.
When that vision is stolen away from us – we can struggle. Many people in this situation talk about feeling lost, confused, in a dreamlike state – or ‘Dazed’.
This state is more common and often deeper when we did not see the end of the relationship coming.
The benefit of this state (every state has good and bad aspects) is that it helps prevent you from making rash decisions. This can be a good thing.
However remain in this state too long, and it will prevent recovery. By its very nature, it can prevent decision making, and thus prevent forward movement, and therefore recovery.
If your test has revealed that you are in the Dazed state make a conscious effort to make positive forward moving steps and decisions. These do not need to be seismic, small positive decisions and most importantly actions will get you moving in the right direction and help pull you out of your Dazed state.
If you are too Dazed to be performing your core functions well, like work, feeding children etc. then get into a routine and stick to it religiously. There can be comfort in the routine, particularly for those in this state.
For more insights, and suggestions consider getting your full Dazed report.
But left unchecked your emotion will render you impotent and stop you from taking any positive future action. This will hold back your career and stop you from having any healthy future relationships.
If however your feeling of being Dazed continues for days, weeks, or even longer then you need to address this. It is highly likely that whilst you are feeling and experiencing this emotion, you haven’t yet expressed the full deepness of it. Thus it remains with you, and will prevent recovery.
There are specific exercises that can be performed to achieve this such as the infamous Naked Divorce Baseball exercise, and are included within the Naked Divorce 21 Day and Haven programs.
These exercises should be completed with professional direction, and so we don’t go into greater detail in this short summary.
You can learn more about your emotions by getting your hands on your Full Report, or through the Naked Divorce programs.